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Weekly posts on sexuality, parenting, marriage, identity, desires and the Church
THE THEOLOGY
A brief overview of how our sexuality reflects the glory of our Three-in-One God
WORKSHOPS
A look at the content of our “teaching your children godly sexuality” workshops.
Welcome to Godly Sexuality
We were created in the image of God and so our sexuality is theographic not pornographic. I want to help restore what has been distorted by the world and help parents impart a godly view of sexuality to their children.
I blog and write on sexuality, marriage, parenting, identity, desires and the Church.
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Brief answers to the question “What is Godly sexuality about?”
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Christ, the Church and Charlottesville
You see fear captivates our attention and means that we give something other than God our attention.
Speak to the desires of the heart (teach your children godly sexuality)
So one of my boys kept lifting up the skirt of one of my girls to see their knickers. An excellent opportunity to talk about godly sexuality with them I thought... So true to form I followed the principles I give in my workshop and talked about the goodness and the...
Wired for intimacy part 2 (godly sexuality)
We saw in our previous post that babies brains are pre-wired to see faces and in particular their initial focus of their eyes is designed to see only those who hold them close, such as the mother who feeds them. This is a shadow of the spiritual reality that we are...
Wired for intimacy part 1 (godly sexuality)
Before we had our first miracle baby we read the book "The Social Baby" which shows that even from birth babies are wired to seek faces over other images: "Within minutes of birth, the baby will turn her head to the sound of someone's voice, when another sound, even...
Punishment, education or discipline (godly parenting)
Discipline has got a bad press. It has become synonymous with punishment and punishment has become synonymous with abuse which society condemns. It is no surprise that society has swung to the opposite end of the spectrum and is overly permissive, giving their...
Repetition is important (teach your children godly sexuality)
So here I am, I've given workshops to parents about how to teach godly sexuality to their children. I live these principles in my own life. I don't shy away from talking about sex and regularly have God-focussed conversations with my children about how our sexuality...
Calling out your child’s true identity (godly parenting)
In a previous post on godly parenting we briefly mentioned prophetic calling out of our children. I want to look at this topic in a little more detail here.The classic example of this is the story of Gideon. When the angel of the LORD appears to Gideon he speaks out...
Teach Your Children Godly Sexuality
A brief guide on how to communicate sexuality in a godly way to your children.
Planned release 2018