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Weekly posts on sexuality, parenting, marriage, identity, desires and the Church
THE THEOLOGY
A brief overview of how our sexuality reflects the glory of our Three-in-One God
WORKSHOPS
A look at the content of our “teaching your children godly sexuality” workshops.
Welcome to Godly Sexuality
We were created in the image of God and so our sexuality is theographic not pornographic. I want to help restore what has been distorted by the world and help parents impart a godly view of sexuality to their children.
I blog and write on sexuality, marriage, parenting, identity, desires and the Church.
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Brief answers to the question “What is Godly sexuality about?”
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Additional resources for godly sexuality books
The Latest From the Blog
Hugh Hefner I’m sorry for what we did (godly sexuality)
But just like a fire if we don’t light it then the house gets cold and people crave warmth from anything and if we light it outside of the fireplace then we’ll burn our house down.
Trump, Clinton or Christ?
We have just witnessed one of the most divisive presidential campaigns in American history that has the potential to destroy everything. Even though I'm British and started watching as an outsider, I eventually found myself taking one side. This led me to question a...
Destination sickness (godly desire)
***CONTENT WARNING*** This is a vulnerable post about my journey to sexual wholeness and may not be appropriate for minors nor for those of a sensitive nature I think one of the biggest lies about the Christian life is that Christians think it is a destination rather...
Gender differences: conflict or complement (godly sexuality)
As we saw in our last post, male and female together make up the full image of God and so both are needed if we are to glorify God. We saw that they are created different to represent the plurality of our Three-in-One God and they were created for unity. It was the...
Unity not uniformity
There’s some fantastic laws in Leviticus (no really!) that contain immense truth: Keep my decrees. Do not mate different kinds of animals. Do not plant your field with two kinds of seed. Do not wear clothing woven of two kinds of material. (Lev 19:19) And in...
Immature giftings (godly parenting)
I had a fight last week with one of my daughters who pushed her brother and then wouldn't own up or apologise. She was so stubborn that I had to send her to her room whilst I calmed down. Back track 11 years to when we had her dedication at church. Whilst it was a...
How to stop looking at a woman lustfully (godly desire)
*Content warning* This post discusses desires in a frank but godly way. All Christian men know the passage: "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." (Mt 5:28) The problem is we don't know is how...
Teach Your Children Godly Sexuality
A brief guide on how to communicate sexuality in a godly way to your children.
Planned release 2018