Hugh Hefner I’m sorry for what we did (godly sexuality)
But just like a fire if we don’t light it then the house gets cold and people crave warmth from anything and if we light it outside of the fireplace then we’ll burn our house down.
Wired for intimacy part 2 (godly sexuality)
We saw in our previous post that babies brains are pre-wired to see faces and in particular their initial focus of their eyes is designed to see only those who hold them close, such as the mother who feeds them. This is a shadow of the spiritual reality that we are...
Wired for intimacy part 1 (godly sexuality)
Before we had our first miracle baby we read the book "The Social Baby" which shows that even from birth babies are wired to seek faces over other images: "Within minutes of birth, the baby will turn her head to the sound of someone's voice, when another sound, even...
Punishment, education or discipline (godly parenting)
Discipline has got a bad press. It has become synonymous with punishment and punishment has become synonymous with abuse which society condemns. It is no surprise that society has swung to the opposite end of the spectrum and is overly permissive, giving their...
Repetition is important (teach your children godly sexuality)
So here I am, I've given workshops to parents about how to teach godly sexuality to their children. I live these principles in my own life. I don't shy away from talking about sex and regularly have God-focussed conversations with my children about how our sexuality...
Calling out your child’s true identity (godly parenting)
In a previous post on godly parenting we briefly mentioned prophetic calling out of our children. I want to look at this topic in a little more detail here.The classic example of this is the story of Gideon. When the angel of the LORD appears to Gideon he speaks out...
An alternative ending to the Orlando shooting
**Content warning: this will be an honest account of some of my sexual struggles during my life and may not be appropriate for minors nor for those of a sensitive nature** How long do you need to spec a gay bar before committing an atrocity? 1 day, 1 week, 1...